Friday, May 22, 2009

My Dad

When people talk about father, what do you think of their image?! Most of the people will said that, he is a solemn person. He always warns us not to do this, not to do that. They seldom showed their love even they do love us and so on. Well, today I’m going to shared about the relationship between me and my dad who is totally contrast from the image that I just mentioned before.
My dad, big and tall, 47 years old and with the most remarkable trait “botak” ( shaven head ). His friends used to call him “botak” and I think he is very pleasure and comfortable on it because he always said that : “This is my registered TRADEMARK !”.Harz……this is the way he used to be humour and the most lovely part of him. Actually my dad really is a humour person. It shows easily when someone else spit out food from his/her mouth……. --_--”
Most of the times, people will say that father are closer with son whereas mother with daughter. But this situation and the position will change when it met my family. I use to communicate with my dad more often than my mom and even I faced out problem, I often choose to shared it with my dad. He is the best listener I ever had and plays good role in both advisor and supporter when I was down. We seems more like friend than father and daughter. How you get your first sex education?! Most of the time answer will be at “secondary school”, “my friend”, “internet”, “VCD or DVD” and etc. Guess what, mine is taught by my dad when I was 13 years old. He is a open minded and democratic person which make me feel luck. The purpose for him is to clarified our query and to satisfied our curiousity. ( But of course I know the main reason is to avoid us from making mistake that we could never imagine. Because once it has done, that’s about it! Don’t even think about second chance )
Besides that, my dad also cherish on every single minute that he spent with us. He enjoy to be with us rather than engaged in social activities. He is the man that no matter what happened, family will always be the first to go on. He took family as the main element in all of his consideration. What can I say, my dad is the kind of man that almost become extinct and this will be the term for me to take into consideration for finding a spouse in the future. ( If possible la… ) Furthermore, my dad would never being stingy for showing his by saying “ I LOVE YOU ”. This made me feels warm and fragrant. Just think about it, how many fathers will say this kind of word, some more man always think that their dignity wouldn’t allowed them to do so. Well, I mean even boyfriend also seldom open their mouth and say the word.
Father’s Day is coming soon, I am going to work on something for showing my love and appreciation to him. How about you guys, don’t think that you are old enough for doing it. Let me tell you something, no matter how old are you or how mature you are, your parent will always threat you as a child and this love will continue forever and ever. So what do you waiting for, this is the chance to show your love and communicate with them all out. Try to do something that can profound you and your dad, something that is valuable to keep in yours and his memory forever. Maybe this will helps to get both of your relationship closer and probably could understand each other more deeply. ( Who knows ??! )

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