Marriage
Initiates a relationship, falls in love with each other, relationship has moves forward become more intimacy, start dating and do everything together, contributes most of the time to be with each other, makes a commitment and lives in a legitimate life are generally part of the process in each of everyone life. However, the most essential part is how you are going to maintain your marriage life afterward. It is easy to get along with each other but difficult to be pardon and understanding other needs.
Just for an illustrated, one of my friend got married when she was 16 years old. She tied the knot with her husband because of pregnancy and her husband only 1 year older than her. Both she and her husband had dropped out from the school and her husband started on working with a low paid salary. Both of their parents still can’t accept their marriage until now but they got no choices. In their mind, they always worried about how these two kids going to move on their path.
What they worried about is reasonable because based on my view, they are too young to get marry and even don’t know each other very well. What my friend told me that she only knew her husband less than 6 months before they get marry. Both of she and her husband still haven’t mature enough on their thought and can’t afford for the expenses. I really can’t imagine how they are going to raise up the child.
While the child was born, their marriage started move slowly toward the end without their conscious. When the burden had increased, they always fight for the maintenance fee and sometimes her husband abused her. She got no one to confide and cried on. Both of them created a boundary for each other and their distance had became far and far. Finally, they agreed to divorce as the perfect ending for the relationship. However, the baby is the most innocent one for throwing here and there by his parent. None of them willing to pick up the responsibility and regarded their child as a trouble.
My mom always said that “When you involve into a marriage, there is no different as you step into a grave!” However, if you want to start a new life with your partner, always remember that it is important to maintain yours relationship. The effort both of you paid in will possible make a change from "Grave to Heaven".
Just for an illustrated, one of my friend got married when she was 16 years old. She tied the knot with her husband because of pregnancy and her husband only 1 year older than her. Both she and her husband had dropped out from the school and her husband started on working with a low paid salary. Both of their parents still can’t accept their marriage until now but they got no choices. In their mind, they always worried about how these two kids going to move on their path.
What they worried about is reasonable because based on my view, they are too young to get marry and even don’t know each other very well. What my friend told me that she only knew her husband less than 6 months before they get marry. Both of she and her husband still haven’t mature enough on their thought and can’t afford for the expenses. I really can’t imagine how they are going to raise up the child.
While the child was born, their marriage started move slowly toward the end without their conscious. When the burden had increased, they always fight for the maintenance fee and sometimes her husband abused her. She got no one to confide and cried on. Both of them created a boundary for each other and their distance had became far and far. Finally, they agreed to divorce as the perfect ending for the relationship. However, the baby is the most innocent one for throwing here and there by his parent. None of them willing to pick up the responsibility and regarded their child as a trouble.
My mom always said that “When you involve into a marriage, there is no different as you step into a grave!” However, if you want to start a new life with your partner, always remember that it is important to maintain yours relationship. The effort both of you paid in will possible make a change from "Grave to Heaven".
posted by Judy at
Monday, June 29, 2009
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